Hot Moms tee shirt logo

While shopping at Target with my daughter last Christmas I noticed a tee shirt hanging on the wall. It was dark blue and had white letters on the front that read, “I Love Hot Moms.” There were several shirts with catchy slogans stocked in the area, but the “Hot Moms” shirt was completely sold out.

Being the mother of three boys ages 28, 23 and 19, I decided to ask them what they thought about the shirt. My 22 year old informed me that all of his friends loved hot moms. I asked him to explain. He said that most of his friends appreciated an older women that still looked good. They apparently believe that older women tend to have more experience (I was afraid to ask what kind of experience), and are usually more confident about themselves.

Mature women have more life experience

He went on to say that most girls his age were very immature, shallow, possessive and annoying. My 19 year old son agreed with him. He added that a lot of the girls he knew from high school were mind-numbingly boring. My 24 year old daughter informed me that several of her guy friends had told her over the years they thought I was hot. I really didn’t want to know which of them had said that.

This new revelation intrigued me so I did a little research. Apparently one thing contributing to the interest in older women is the porn industry. I won’t go into details, but the term MILF (I will let you look that one up on your own) surfaced quite frequently during my searches. It appears that the number of young boys and men who view this stuff is increasing rapidly.

Older women are taking better care of themselves

Another reason why young men are attracted to older women is because women are taking better care of themselves. Simply put, they look younger than they really are. Plastic surgery has obviously had a big role in this. To many young men it’s a win-win situation. You get the looks, experience, and often financial success without the awkwardness that some young girls have.

The number of adult females (some are moms, some are not) who have had sex with underage boys has increased as well. We’ve all watched as one attractive women after another is put on trial for statutory rape charges. Many men and boys set with baited breath watching and secretly fantasizing about being the ones who are seduced by these women instead of the victims.

Here’s to you Mrs. Robinson

Throughout the ages younger men and boys have developed crushes on their friend’s mom, their teacher, or even a relative. This new way of thinking is more than having a harmless crush. It seems that the boundaries of age no longer exist in the sexual realm on many levels.

In a healthy relationship between two consenting adults age should not be a factor. I do believe however that we should be careful to teach our sons to respect women and mothers not only as a group, but individually. If future generations do not learn to respect the sanctity of motherhood, their elders or women in general, our society will definitely be headed down a bad path.